Kisses are really important. I think they tell a lot about how a person loves. I’m thinking of the kisses I’ve had in my life, some of them very recently, have stood out. Some are fervent and drunk, some are desperate and fevered.
Some men have big tongues and insist on slobbering as they kiss. That’s gross. I can’t be with a guy that slobbers, it’s just not in my nature. If I wanted to feel saliva on my face, I’d get a dog. Then again, it’s been said that men are dogs. So let’s steer away.
I like my head and face held when I’m kissed, yet kissing a man is different from kissing a woman.
I think back to the days when I was “experimenting”; girls for some reason would come up to me and randomly kiss me. I remember when I was on internship, this cute little girl. I’ve forgotten her name, she’d come and steal a peck, when she was really boozed up, she’d smack kiss me on the lips and I’d embrace her, she was one of the first to tell me that women liked soft kisses. I tended to kiss strongly, liking the feel warring tongues. During that time I wondered why kissing this girl was never truly satisfying.
Men like the power of a kiss, the connection of masculinity and the connection to self. When I kissed women, if memory serves - first kisses were reserved and simple, while gay kisses are full of fever and emotional intoxication. Often they require a second round. Of course there is no standard. I haven’t kissed a woman in a very long time, so I have no follow up experience.
A good lover, in turn a good partner, will rotate a kiss, pull back and wait, will feel if he’s uncomforting and can feel comfort. One can tell a lot from a priceless kiss, kisses have their own language and moment. A good kiss will usher in a relationship a bad kiss can tell that the end is near.
So kisses are living breathing things and I will hold on to the good ones a long time to come, I have fonder memories of kisses then the act of sex.
I had one experience with a guy who was really... "ALL OVER THE PLACE". Like you said, he seemed to be licking all over my face with his tongue. My first thought about that was "Shit, now I got to wash my face". So, I decided to cut short on the kissing, although I'm a real kissing type. Though I like to tease with my kisses, going from really soft to, what you call, full of fever and emotional intoxication.
Posted by: Kiks | March 20, 2006 at 05:52 PM