I have come to realize that a lot of my first (second, third, etc…) dates have ended in misery: from too much alcohol, the gay bar that I’ve been, or simply the lack of the romantic. I’m in a conscious mood to change. I’ve also realized that I’ve spent far too much time in bars; gay straight whatever. Far too much time drinking, if you’ve read my recent pages, you know I’m trying to change. I’m looking for old patterns to break. One of the things I’ve always loved but never sought out has been, assorted tea houses. I’ve always loved tea and fancy shmanzy service. Recently I found the most amazing Japanese Tea house with my friend Margaret. The ideal first date, I’ve know her for a few years, she’s sixty and always makes me feel sexy. Besides I have better conversation with her then any Actor, Model, Dancer I’ve ever meet. So yes, she was wonderful to discover this little gem with me.
Cha An is also the only place I’ve seen were you can participate in a real Japanese Tea Ceremony, something I’ve wanted to do for ages. The Tea House is also very reasonably priced, from four to eight dollars for the average pot of tea. Truly gorgeously done nibble things can be had for nine. I sat with my friend for two and a half hours and only had a fifty dollar check that included tip and tax.
I found this place through TeaMap.com a great resource for small intimate and romantic settings, it’s a great page for you all you readers both in and not off New York.
I’m seriously going back with friends and maybe even Mr. Right. My favorite thing about the joint was the unrushed and truly quite environment, not only did I not have to shout like with most bars I’m in, but we could actually have a great conversation.
Totally off topic - when did you start blogging again?
Welcome back!
Posted by: maria | January 15, 2006 at 03:01 AM
Fantastic tip on the Cha An! Back in the dating world and always looking for a fab place! Cheers!
Posted by: Kimberli | January 20, 2006 at 08:25 AM