Dear Skye,
So in my class at college there's this REALLY cute guy. All his friends are straight and probably would disapprove of him being gay, but he SO IS (voice, clothes...). Our college is shit and English, so everyone except the girls are homophobic, so I tend not to tell any males about myself. They might get scared. How do you suggest I come on to this hottie in a subtle yet effective way?
Can you think of a way which includes ass-grabbing or perhaps even dropping a pencil across his lap and having to quickly dive across him to fetch it, resulting in my head being in a nice place? I want him in bed eventually, though.
Eyeing the Hottie
Dear Eyeing,
It sounds like you're a bit confused, there are a few ways to approach this lad. First don't assume that his friends would disapprove, he knows more about his own life then you do. You must also understand. Do you want a one nighter with an awkward out-come that involves avoiding eye contact for the rest of your college experience or an actual real relationship.
If you want a one nighter, get him drunk and just blow him. Yes it happens, i'm sure on lots of college campuses world-wide. Yet this comes with consequence and I don't recommend it, he might freak out, at the very least you'll probably never see him again and never make eye contact. There might even be odd rumors to contend with depending on how much of a macho man he wants to portray.
The best approach is to simply become friends. Ask his name, talk to him, walk to class with him. Better yet find out which of your friends you have in common and go from there, don't put a lot of pressure on this hottie, even beautiful people want to find love; at times because so many people are afraid to approach them, they are never approached. Also don't assume he's gay, you never know. The friend approach is the best. When the time is right, come out to him, confess you're into men, see what happens. Be honest and forthright but pick your battles.
If you're in it for a hook-up then find someone you already know is reliable in bed. Not the eye-candy across the room fraught with uncertainty.
Yours,
Skye
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