I don't know how this happens. Every once in a while two bodies fit perfectly together. I'm not talking about the mind, that's a completely different matter; cuddling is really important to me. Some people cuddle better then others. Some seem to be made for it. It's about the curves of the body, the gentle motion of the two forms that come together.
I never really know who's going to be a good cuddler but when it happens it's really nice and a pleasant surprise. You can lay in their arms for a while. It's a nice thing, comforting to hear someones heart beating faster because your right next to them.
I sometimes think of good cuddlers, these are nice memories, often they take place on couches, in movie theaters, it's the closeness. That entrance into personal space. That place we keep around us. I like cuddling and it's one of those things that makes me really happy.
Oh yeah, couldn't resist the picture, just to cute. Okay, I promise never to get this mushy again. Back to the jaded me tomorrow.
Mushy is good, but cuddling is better. And you're right. It's hard to find good cuddlers these days. Unlike designer jeans or tailored clothes, they're not custom made.
Posted by: Walt | April 05, 2005 at 01:27 PM
I love cuddling, but I'm a hot person. I can't do it for long but there are some guys out there that are so good at it, they actually know how to keep you close and cool. I've learned it's the little things like this that makes a guy a keeper
Posted by: long tran | April 05, 2005 at 02:41 PM
Kitten kaboodle canoodle!
Posted by: Mark | April 05, 2005 at 02:51 PM
Good cuddlers are great! Just don't keep someone around just for the cuddling. Really... trust me.
Posted by: Maria | April 05, 2005 at 11:44 PM
Nice to know there's some mush underneath all that jaded...
Posted by: g8s | April 06, 2005 at 06:55 AM
Oh I agree with Maria. Cuddling is as important as sex but I've fallen into the trap of cuddle buddy before. All cuddle, no lovin'. But god those were some of the best cuddles I've ever had.
Posted by: ken | April 06, 2005 at 02:39 PM
Cuddling should be a Gay Games sport. I love cuddling. I got my degress from Bucksnort University in cuddlology.
A hairy chest and nice pecs are a prerequisite for being a good snuggle/cuddle buddy. WOOOF
Posted by: bax | April 07, 2005 at 07:05 AM
oh i love cuddling more than sex. i've dated guys and they'd wanna fool around but all i wanted to do was cuddle for hours! it's better than sex to me. heh, guess that makes me sound needy and dependant as all hell. haha whatever. i'm cuddler. i don't care. *smiles*
Posted by: Derrick | April 07, 2005 at 11:50 PM
I agree with you 100%... some of my fondest memories of relationships past are those of the great cuddlers. The ones where falling into their arms feels like... well I just can't explain it... its just really really really great... a little piece of heaven. :)
Posted by: Just Me | April 08, 2005 at 10:22 PM
Yes the touch therapy does have loads of impact on the body definitely.
Posted by: Propecia | August 07, 2009 at 04:03 PM
I like cuddle more than sex too.
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